> Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in
> the malls, and at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what a
> good man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough
> to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not
> have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you
> realize it's better to find someone who's got your back rather than
> someone who turns your head.
>
> A good man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He
> doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He
> doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he
> won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may
> clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even
> admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the
> same.
>
> A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is
> human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful,
> strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that
> you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare,
> 'Aha! I knew you were a dog!'
>
> A good man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements. In
> fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with her
> when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not hurting
> his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness comes
> with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals. As she
> excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man right along
> with her.
>
> A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's
> gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't
> judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll
> miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are
> no good. It's just not true.
>
> A good black man is a man of his word. He says what he means and means
> what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering if he
> is going to call or show up - he is dependable. A good black man has a
> love and a heart for Spirit. As his relationship and love with and for
> Spirit grows so will his relationship and love with and for you grow...
>
> Pass this along to some of the Good Black Men you know and a few women
> that need to read it ... So that they can recognize a good black man.
A FRIEND OF MINE EMAILED ME THIS...IT IS SO TRUE ! WE ALWAYS PASS UP GOOD MEN.
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